For the real system rules written on the wall of the Wu Shu Guan in Yong Chun have a look rules.html Learn how to address the teacher. Is he a Ge Ge, Lau Shr, Shr Fu or just Dave!
Always respect the other persons experiences.
Don't be shy - you are what you are.
You can learn from everyone.
Fundamentals transcend style.
All teachers are shy and a bit insecure - you have to help them get over it to get the best from them.
Only do what you are comfortable with.
You will not understand what they are doing.
Leave friends behind you.
Go back - the truth takes time.
It takes time to find the system that suits you.
You will always find a better teacher.